Tuesday, July 22, 2014

June 21st


 No matter where I am in the world, June 21st is not my favorite day. The same goes for the week before June 21st too. Father’s day to June 21st can just be a little rough, but especially June 21st. I always cope with June 21st by going shopping and keeping myself busy, and today was no different.

It was actually a rest day for us, so I was able to set aside everything else and just take some me time-with someone by my side of course. We went to Mamallapuram. Where Claartje and I immediately set out on an adventure to explore some more ruins. I have wanted to explore these ones for a few weeks now but didn't get the chance until today. The Indian Archeological Society has done a lot of work in Mamallapuram, so the ruins had paths and markers (which were in Tamil of course) leading your way through, but you could still go up and in them too. I was a little surprised they let us do that but I wasn’t going to argue about it either. Random people will come up to you and ask if they can give you a tour but then expect you to pay them at the end—we had a few people approach us, and don’t quote me on this but one of them said these ruins were from the 7th century (?) I wanted more clarification but I didn’t want to pay him so we left-but even if they weren’t from the 7th century they were still crazy old and freaking sweet. The art, the details that still show after all this time, it was insane. And the ruins were surrounded by the jungle, which of course came with all it’s joys—aka monkeys. I literally felt like I was in Jungle Book. 









My favorite thing about this monkey is that he has a butt crack haircut. Seeing that took me right back to good old Oak Canyon Junior High. And he has gingivitis. Naughty monkey. 




Playing multiple games of Banana Grams has become a daily occurrence with this session. I have yet to win but am determined to achieve that someday. I would really like to win while playing with Maurine, because she is so competitive and always wins everything--well almost everything. Until I beat her that is. BUT--it looks like these ancient people spent some time playing Banana Grams as well---how advanced of them!


We met these adorable kids that we became buddies with—they were a riot. After exploring ruins with them they took us to their parents and requested a family picture. The dad said I should take the curly haired one home to America with me--I wouldn’t of minded taking her home, but I’ve watched too many Locked Up Abroad episodes to actually try it.  Plus, I’m not going home anytime soon so what do you do. Oh yeah, and because that would be wrong.






The morning of exploring left us crazy hungry so we made our way to Moonrakers—which usually has free WIFI Internet, but all Internet happened to be down for the day, probably because the Internet god’s hate us. Really, we just needed food and water through. One of the volunteers that has been here before told me there was classified adds for brides in the newspaper but unfortunately, I couldn't find them. I’m bound and determined to find to track them down now. It’s become my new personal mission. Then in typical June 21st fashion I did some shopping and haggled until I was hoarse. Best purchase of the day was hand made leather sandals for more or less the equivalent of  $5 us dollars. I always love me some good bargain shopping no matter where I do it.

Of course I was missing my family a bit—so I decided to look at the pics we took the last time we got together before I left. I honestly hadn’t looked close at them yet, but they made me laugh. Especially this one of some of my nieces and nephews:


Despite my “sundburn” I love this pic because I really think all the faces they are pulling match each of their personalities perfectly. I sure do miss all my littles. This picture may or may not be my screensaver right now. J During an education rotation a few weeks ago we had all the kids draw the members of their family along with a talent they each have. I drew one as an example and have it hanging up on my wall. The whole idea of remarrying after a spouse passes away isn’t very common here so I had to keep it very basic—sorry Brent. Interestingly enough though, there have been many kids that have come to talk to me about losing a parent as well. I have been reminded a lot over the last four years about how I can use my life experiences to help others—even (and actually more specifically) the really hard ones.